FLU

Soo, last week I was sick with what the dr. said was just a "viral infection- probably just a cold". I went with that... had never felt that bad with a cold, but, OK. Fast forward from Tues (when I went to the Dr.) to Saturday... Jeremy and I are out of town and the kids are with MiMI. 3 Kids are running fevers and puny. Low grade off and on... Until Monday... Tay wakes up with 103 temp, puking,lethargic, too weak to stand. I am waiting at the Dr. when they open. Diagnosis: Flu (which, is now decided that was what I had last week)and ear infection. When I get home, JD is running 103 temp... might as well just stay home, we are too late for tamiflu now.... By that night, Conner has 102 temp.. Here we go, we all have the flu. Needless to say, rough week. Still running low grade temps and coughing and snotting. Ugh... maybe we can hold on!

updates

I feel terrible that I don't update this as often as I should! Things are just soo crazy around here!  Between working, kids, sickness, starting ball and dance- AND I am trying to start up a new side job of photography, I usually only have seconds to hop on here and check things-never really long enough to sit and type anything.  The only reason I do now it the boys are destroying something in the living room- but no ones crying so it's all good!!

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SNOW

We  got SNOW! and Not just a little bit but a lota bit!!! We have been snowed in since Sunday night.  Even Jeremy, who is dedicated to his job had to call in for 2 shifts.  I was fortunate enough to be able to hitch a ride with the County Sherrifs department (who is also my neighbor) to my work.  There were lots of people not making it in to their jobs and lots of people getting stuck!  He even came and brought me home!!

It has been really nice being snowed in with these crazy people! We haven't really played out in in too much for a few reasons:

1- Conner HATED it!

2- it's a ton of trouble layering up 3 kids for less than 10 minutes

3- Tay has been running a fever and has a mystery rash.  (called the dr and talked to them((also told them we were stranded and would basically have to go by what I was telling them)) and they said it sounded like a virus.)

I know one thing- this snow is gorgeous and who knows when we will see it again.  I have truly enjoyed being snuggled up at home with the ones I love the most.

NICU reunion

This is a very brief and short blog- sorry!! I need to do so much better at updating!  But- life is busy and great!

 B(brody)L(leighton)T(tatum)

                                                                 These miracles are 5!!!!

                                                              The best shot of the day!

                                                                           Silly Loves!

                                                     Look how big those feet are now!

 These babies were less than a week old when the awesome nurses did imprints of their feet onto an apple- it hung outside the NICU for all the parents to see.  those feet are smaller than your thumb!

On Oct 17th- we went to the NICU reunion- Tatum's 5th one!! Hard to believe still that my little girl is 5!!!!  Anyways- while in the NICU we made some lifelong friends- friends that are there for us no matter what or how often we get to see each other- which isn't nearly often enough. And these babies pick up where they left off- hugging each other and not wanting to let the other one go..... They formed a bond in those little isolettes.... Well, before the reunion, we had a little photo shoot at Centennial park.... here are some of my faves!!!! I love you all!

Tears

to make a LONGGG ( 5 year) story short- I will give you a summary.  Jeremy... Tatum... JD.... and Conner; love them more than I could ever imagine.  We have gone through things in the last 5 years that OBVIOUSLY not even death could seperate.  They are my life..... and I have been remembering way too much lately.

You all make me so happy

5 years old!

The Princess' Cake

Queen Laura and Princess Tatum

Love her soo much

blues

Royal Pajama Party

The queen recieving Royal pampering

Lovely little Princesses

Let me tell you!  I love a party- but more than that- I LOVE PLANNING parties!!!! This party was by far- the best I have achieved so far!!!!  We had a Princess Party- complete with royal proclamation invites- and you must be dressed in your royal attire to attend!!! All the girls were beautiful pricesses and the boys were the Knights!  We had a royal dinner, princess games and cake and punch in "fancy glasses"!  After the Princes and Knights went home, we had a royal pajama party for Tatum and her friends.  It was so much fun!!!

The wonderful and crazy life of the Kelly's: RMH Birthday Dinner 2010

The wonderful and crazy life of the Kelly's: RMH Birthday Dinner 2010

RMH Birthday Dinner 2010

Everyone has that ONE place that holds a special place in their hearts; that ONE place where they feel loved unconditionally; that ONE place where you know that there is always a friendly face and a hug waiting for you; that ONE place that no matter how bad your day has been- there will always be some encouragement waiting for you.

That ONE place for me is the Ronald McDonald House.  And that place isn't just there for me- it is there for soo many people.  It is truly run by angels and I have NO doubt that God built it himself.

Our birthday Celebrations are just a *tiny* way of thanking them for being there for us when we needed.  And maybe be can give encouragement to someone while we are there.  Kinda helps to see that these 1 pound babies grow up to be 5 year olds too!

blankets

For anyone who has known Tatum for any amount of time, you know that she loves her blankets!  She has 6 fleecy/silky blankets and slept with then nightly!! When she was little, we never left the house without one or two of these blankets.  Her love of these started when she was tee-niney in the NICU.  Actually- the first time I held her, I was using one of these blankets.  Everyone of her blankets have a story and we LOVINGLY remember where each of these blankets came from.  We even had professional pictures made at 1 year old with one of these blankets....

Fast forward to about a month ago:  Tatum got a BIG GIRL bed from my dad.  And that first night she slept with the blankets.  And I think that was the last night.... She didn't need them anymore.  What happened to not being able to sleep without all 6 blankets??  I wish I could remember the last night she wanted her blanket(s)- wish I had taken a picture to remember when she obviously grew up over night.  This past week, we cleaned up her room and boxed up some things that we didn't play with anymore.  We boxed up some dolls and toys that were mine from childhood that she is gonna save for her babies.  I washed all the blankets and asked if she wanted to out them away.  She said she wanted to save them for her babies, but wasn't ready to put them in a box but didn't want to sleep with them- could we just put them where she could see them if she needed them.

Whew- there's still hope she's not grown yet! And I'm so glad that she didn't want to box these blankets up- I think I need them!

Happy First Birthday Conner

emotions

I have been in Centennial Women's Hospital multiple times since August 2005; twice as a patient for myself, 1001 (seemingly) times to visit my babies or my nephew LBH when he was there, and several times to visit and thank the people who saved mine and my baby's lives. I always get a pit in my stomach when I walk in there. The smell of the hospital and the sounds have never changed in the last 5 years and when I walk in there, I instinctivly want to head to the 7th floor to visit my child; even when they are holding my hand beside me.

I have struggled with that for 5 years. But, I do not think I have ever been struck as hard with those emotions as I was this past Monday... My sister is having pregnancy complications and had to have a cerglage put in due to an imcompetent cervix. Walking into those doors, and the first thing I got was the smell (CMC doesn't stink at all- it just has a distinctive smell to me). Then, we register her in and walk her to a room. A patient room. I have never been on the sit and wait side of that... I was always the patient. I guess I see now how they seemed so calm- it's all a front for the person laying in the bed. I cannot even begin to describe how hard it was to sit there. For starters, my sister in only 19 weeks pregnant- way too soon for my niece to be born yet- what if this didn't work or what if this sent her into labor... what if.. what if...

and then my mind goes back to when I first walked (well, rolled- I was on a stretcher) into this hospital and all those fears for my tiny baby that was soon to be born came flooding back. (and bear in mind, I had 2 tiny baby's there). It was at times all I could do to keep from breaking down into sobs. We have had many a scary day at Centennial Women's Hospital- and thank GOD that we made it though it all.

And yet, on MOnday, I just sat there. Assured Dana that everything would be fine- this was gonna work... AND I'M STILL PRAYING IT DOES. And allowed my heart to cry out silently to God, because my mouth wouldn't work. And played the tough strong sister that takes care of everyone- because that's my job. Fear and all- I will do this because I'm needed.

nervous mommy

Well, I have never considered myself as an overly paranoid mommy. And in my profession, I see many of those and often wonder why they are so overly paranoid.

Well, I guess I can be added into that category after taking Conner to the ER for a fall. (Let me add that after 3 kids- falls DO NOT phase me... I have never even called the Dr for a fall/bump on the head).

Yesterday, Conner fell from our bed; straight down onto his head. He didn't cry at first and then only for a minute. He then went limp and very lethargic- we had a very hard time keeping him awake and he wouldn't hold his head up. Just seconds before the fall he was laughing and playing so this was a huge difference. We gave it a few minutes and then decided to take him to the ER where I work to let them look at him. Ultimately, we ended up signing him in where he got a CT scan of his brain and x-rays of his neck. He didn't act like himself all day- but, they told us everything was fine and what to watch for with him.

There have been many times that I have had children as my patients for the very same thing and have questioned is it necessary. And some of the times it may not be. And who's to say it wasn't necessarry for Conner. But, when a parent is so fearful, as we were yesterday, you have to make sure they know you view them as important. I know I won't be so quick to judge the next time I get a kid from the ER for a fall- having been in those parents shoes and knowing how scared they are.....

So.... add overly paranoid mommy to my resume. (that title is probably already there, it's just now written in bold!)

11 months old

So, I find it extremely hard to believe that this time last year I was laid up in the bed.... wondering when my last day of pregnancy would be.

And NOW- this precious baby is 11 months old!!!!! Do you realize that means his FIRST birthday is in a month????? and I will no longer have a baby??????? Ugh... so hard to wrap my mind around!

update- just for you Stephanie

I saw a good friend of mine the other day, sadly, at her mom's funeral. She informed me that I hadn't updated my blog lately! She is so right.... so, Stephanie, this blog is for you. I love you girl and I am so sorry for your loss... My heart truly aches for you.....

To say that 2010 has been busy so far would have to be an understatement!!!! So far, we have had JD's 2nd birthday, 1 trip to the emergency room, several trips to the Dr- upper respiratory infections, migraines, buckets of snot, coughs and the stomach bug.... and it's only March! Oh and we have visited some of our Fave people- The Ronald McDonald House and Centennial NICU. We also walked last weekend in March of dimes Walk for babies- in HOPES that one day, all babies will be born full term and healthy....

Jeremy and I are also working with Giles County's Relay for Life Team- I am on the County's committee and the Captain of our local Hospital's Team and He is working with me and Wal-marts team. To say that Cancer sucks would be an understatement and we are trying to do our small part to help raise funds and awareness for cancer research and treatment.

The kids are growing more and more every day!!! I think that once JD turned 2- his speech light switch flipped on- he amazes Jeremy and I everyday with the things he is now saying. Conner is fastly catching up to JD- he is only about 3 inches shorter than JD and 3 lbs lighter- they will be in the same size clothes this summer. These boys keep me on my toes- that is for sure!!!

I cut Tatum some bangs this weekend. She isn't a fan and whines/cries about them almost daily. I think they are the cutest thing ever and wish I had cut them sooner!!! She looks so grown up with them!!!! She is playing peewee softball this year along with dancing still- which is her passion. She is still the smallest one on the field and in her class!!!

been a while.....

Conner's first snow- for what it was worth!!! He and I were sweating in this pic even though it was like 11 degrees!

gnawing with those 2 teeth that Santa Claus brought him!!!! Could have brought mom and dad some energy with those teeth since we were the ones up all night with him!

To say things have been busy the last few months would have to be an understatement!! Between, Holidays, sick kids, a death in the family, and trying to work extra shifts and taking call- what little mind I had left is just about gone!!!!!

This is a Conner Dean update!!! It's so hard to believe that on Jan 15th, 09 I was 20 weeks pregnant and starting my bedrest with him. On Jan 18th, 10- Conner was 8 months old!!! That is so hard to wrap my mind around! These past 8 months have gone by in an absolute blur!!! He is amazing- as I'm sure most "normal" babies are!

The past few months have brought Conner's first Christmas- and he got his first 2 teeth!!! Literally- they came in Christmas Eve Night- we were up all night working those teeth through!!! It was so wonderful to spend Christmas with our family and not have to worry so much about germies. I still worry, probably more than I should though- but, hey, I have earned the right to be a worry wart!!! He truly loved all the lights of Christmas and the paper was his favorite gift!

We are now trying to eat anything we can get our hands on- we may be transitioning to real food soon as he has no interest in that yucky baby stuff! He is sitting up for longer and longer periods of time now too! He is crawling too! Which is so funny to watch! He will get anywhere he wants to go either by crawling or rolling.



The one complaint with Conner- he still doesn't sleep all night!!!! We have tried to cry it out method and it's not working! He doesn't give up and that in turn manages to wake JD and then we have 2 crying boys- which is not good!!!! Oh well, I guess we will be sleep deprived a little longer- I better enjoy my snuggles while I can get them!!!!

A little bit of Christmas!

This is just a little bit of our 2009 Christmas!!! Thankfully, aside from snotty noses (which is the norm for our kiddos)- everyone was over the horrible stomach bug! We had such a wonderful Christmas complete with the kids getting even more spoiled! It is so wonderful to know that we are all loved by so many people. I think God just has ways of putting people and things in place when he knows you need them the most.

This was probably the best family photo we got this year- it's hard to get 3 little ones to look in the same direction AND smile at the same time! This pic was snapped in between Conner Dean crying! I am a little sad to know this is my last-first Christmas! no more babies!!!!!

I hope this New year is wonderful.......

My Sweet JD

I love this little boy! He is a total sweet heart and is a comedian!!! He has a precious giggle and does some unbelieveable cute things.......

So, to all the rude people out there...... There is nothing wrong with my baby! Yes- he's small. Yes- he has a BIRTH MARK (hemangioma) on his nose, but,that doesn't mean something happened to him. And NO- he isn't talking yet. ( I understand he's almost 2 and you are amazed that he doesn't talk).


But, ya know what..... he almost died. He was a tiny 1 pound 12 oz baby that contracted several serious infections.... one of which kills 90% of babies that get it- and he survived! And regardless of how hard it if for me to deal with his speech delay- I am just beyond blessed that he's still in our lives. I would NEVER ask a parent what was wrong with their kids face- why are people so rude???


OK- soap box.... I'm getting off now!

Like it's your last day....

Last week, I had a dream that shook me to my core- brought me to my knees in fear! I dreamed that this sweet little girl was gone... No longer in my life. This dream was so vivid and real- I was hysterically sobbing and was almost unable to control my emotions when I woke up and realized that this precious girl was snuggled beside me in the bed. I can not imagine my life without Tay in it- the joy she brings to me and others.... She is so loved by so many people. I am so lucky to be her mommy. I have dealt with the idea and possiblity of losing her before... but, that was 4 years ago when I didn't know how much I could truly love this precious little love.....I have been so nervous the past week to let her out of my sight- afraid it may be the last time that I hug or kiss her.... I make she she knows I love her "higher than the highest kite ever flown, deeper than the deepest fish ever swam... I love you more, so much more than you're ever known."

And I hope they do.... all know that I love them more than they could ever know.... I cannot imagine my life without my babies!

(Just an FYI- I would be equally lost if I lost JD or Conner, but, she was the one in the dream...) (I am all teary as I write this even.... someone told me to write it down, that it would help take it off my mind.... that's what I'm trying)

A day in the leaves

Conner in the leaves! (not crying right now)
Sweet JD

My Precious Family

Sassy Jane

My little loves

Last week, we went to my Sis-in-Laws and played in her leaves. I had wonderful photo ideas in my head and thought I could get some beautiful shots of my kids. My kids, on the other hand, obviously didn't get the memo. They didn't really even want to play in them much. (Well- JD was ok to be face first in them, but, that's not a pretty shot)! Every time you sat Conner in them, he started crying and Tay was getting dirty- such a girl! I got a few shots though. And a pretty good family photo- minus my cleavage (sorry!)